5 tricks while making love

Sabtu, 16 Juli 2011


1. A little imagination 
Start thinking like going to write a novel. Whatever new thing you do can improve the quality of your sexual relationship. Try the simple, such as moving side of the bed can provide an entirely new perspective and different. Only by moving your hand might imagine that you have to do something drastic. Try lying horizontally in bed. Forget making love while lying down but to do while sitting opposite. Forget the bed and do on the floor. Or when you used to do that without wearing any clothes, socks or stockings try reserving remain attached in your body. And when you used to do at night before bed, try to do it in the morning after waking up, although the sun may be shining very brightly. It might make you think back to the early days of your marriage with him. One thing to imagine is, imagine your body. That does not mean you have to imagine a very flat stomach and toned legs or a pair of beautiful, but you can imagine your clitoris. The clitoris is not just a minor flesh visible beneath the vaginal lips, but imagine that every time there was penetration, then the entire clitoris and genital blood olej you will be met. Meanwhile, when you orgasm, the entire organ was throbbing and contracting. By imagining that perhaps you will better be able to feel the sensation of orgasm is more intense. Kreasikan a metaphor in your mind about your intimate relationship with your partner and what he does in your body. By imagining what happens to your body when you're having sex, then your body will more easily receive a response from the couple. So every time you make love, your mind will be focused on the enjoyment that will be generated by these activities and will not have time to think about other problems. 

2. Refine Your Sensitivity To Touch Maybe you and your partner already knows how to massage. But do not you think that there are various methods of massage and touch your partner? If you usually only hit, maybe you can squeeze it. Response test pairs every time you try some new massage techniques. Besides using your hands, you can also use the tongue, teeth, lips or breath to touch your partner. Always in search of new stimuli places. If you usually hug your neck when you kiss your partner, try to stroke her shoulder.Engineering change or try new areas, can make you more focused. Instead of kissing, you can rub each other the finger on the lips. The sensation it produces a very different and gives a new nuance. Next you can continue to explore new areas on his body. Move slowly and use your hands to explore. If you can find sensual spots on her body, then you can immediately make you horny men. Gently massaging each other and relax will give a tremendous sensation in both of you. And the sex that follows will be incredible too. 

3. Breathe simultaneously Breathing with your partner. The key is to breathe together with a partner. One simple method is to lie down with your back facing the couple. This can be done before, during or after intercourse. Men hugged and put your hand on your chest. Take a deep breath slowly and let him follow it. Once you both breathe the same time, you will feel the closeness of love deeper. You can make a nice routine. One more well-positioned to do this is faced with legs sitting cross-legged. Place your right hand on his chest and vice versa. While your left hand above right hand your spouse who is in your chest, and vice versa. Then start breathing simultaneously while looking at each other eye couples. Take a breath, throw, take a breath, throw away.When doing so remember to dispose of the energy of love flowing from your hand to the liver. Allow your soul to see another soul mate. Laughter is the best way to end this activity. You can also experiment itself. At the moment of orgasm try to hold your breath.Breathing quickly then hold. Then dispose of breath during the climax. Sighs and moans can make the orgasm last longer. When the orgasm, remove everything.Moan or cry out okay. Let your body expression. 

4. Try a New Position Over the years, you probably already have some favorites that comfortable position when having sex with a partner. Convenience is a major factor. But that does not mean you can not improvise with these positions. Starting with a few positions during foreplay. Rather than lay side by side, try to lie down while your husband sits cross-legged. Put your legs around his waist. Let him put his hand above your head while the other hand you are exploring a vital tool.These activities bring reassuring all at once exhilarating sensations in your body. The husband will really enjoy the scenery in front of him and you get a massage on your head and a vital tool. Then exchange tempatlah. Than had oral sex in the bed or sofa, try to do it in the middle of the room. Let him stand up when you sit or kneel in front of him. The absence of objects to lean on, very erotic to men. And with the knees, as if you were punished him. Sexy is not it? Do not forget to swap places. To sex positions, try this style. Let the husband grabbed both of your legs. He'll bend your legs until you're right in the chest. That way you can move without the weight above your husband's body. Another advantage of this position, make you feel sexy.You can also take a pillow and put it behind the hip. Position will change the angle of penetration. Experiment. To train the woman on top, ask your husband to sit on a chair. You can slightly bend with both legs resting on the armrests. Or sit on his lap with your back facing his chest. Both of these positions makes her husband's hand can move freely.Or can you just try to positions below. Ask your husband to stand up while lying down with both feet stuck to the floor. It could also ask the husband to hold both your legs and positioned in front of the chest or around her neck. May use pillows to match your body height and husband. Lastly, try to lie down with your head on the side of the bed.Then lift both your legs and let your husband hold it. Or you can stand with both hands resting on the edge of the bed, let the husband to penetrate her from behind.Extraordinary sensation caused by this position will be very exciting for her husband and especially for you. 

5. Learn to say the words she wanted to hear Women must turn his mouth in various ways during sex. So bersuaralah. Not mean to say anything dirty or issue orders like a foreman. Words that can melt a man is a soft spoken, almost sighing. Men are very to the point. They just want an orgasm. You as a woman should know how to say "Just Too Slowly ...", then you will get more "foreplay", and he's usually happy to give the desired sensation partner. Express your wishes via a sigh correctly. If you succeed, then you will be more aroused men. Do not just speak but mendesahlah. Will grow easily and perfectly ripe when you grow and mature. There are studies that say that at age 40, male sexual orientation will change. When at a young age he would immediately aroused when seeing naked women (visual stimuli), then at the age of 40 will not affect visualization. This is due to decreased hormone testosterone. Men experience andropause is similar to menopause in women. Only 10 years sooner. Because men do not ever expect any changes, then they tend to panic. Panic can cause erectile dysfunction. Even stranger, after andropause, men are more stimulated by the romance and communication. Feel close and comfortable with the couple preferred. Emotional closeness is more meaningful. Thus, after age 40, men will become like a woman. more sentimental. So start from now. Tell him, "To me you're the most handsome man in the world," "You're the joy in my life," or "I never got tired of making love to you." Then you will get the most intense sensation of sex. And also emotional intimacy with him during those years.





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6 WAYS TO MORE COMFORTABLE BEFORE SEX

Minggu, 10 Juli 2011




Not all women feel confident and comfortable during sex. And comfort can makelovemaking into extraordinary events. For a comfortable love activities, considerthese tips.


Here are six tips, as quoted from glamorous.


1. communication
Communicate continuously is the main thing in sex activities. Talk to your partner what is your desire during sex, this will make you bedua become closer and understand each other.


2. open minded
Trying new things is a fun way to relieve tension. No harm in trying to make love like in a movie style adult sex or trying to properties that makes you curious. But if the coupletold to do things beyond your normal limits, do not hesitate to say no.


3. Find out what excites you
Read erotic fiction, watching adult movies or warm bath may be an option to get themood to make love. When you understand what makes passionate, then you will feel more connected with the sexual side.


4. many of the exercises
Want to try something sexy (such as sending messages naughty) but feel awkward?There is no harm to try it first as he imagined how sensual it is.


5. Make yourself feel sexy
Make yourself you always feel sexy with confidence high, so the couple could not wait for the event having sex. Realizing how your partner wants you, will make you morecomfortable on the bed.


6. Relax and laugh
If a failure occurs when trying new positions, do not consider it as a disaster. Take it as humor and laugh together. It can make your sex activity is much more relaxed andenjoyable.

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HOW TO GET IN 60 SECONDS ORGASM



Orgasms are sometimes unpredictable. The moment could come quickly, but there are also women who take longer to get it. Want to try an orgasm quickly?
Here are four tips to achieve orgasm is less than one minute:


1. Relax Most women feel tense during lovemaking. And if the muscles tense and our bodies, it will be difficult for you to reach climax. As written by The Sun, Dutch study found that women can only reach climax when there are no worries in him. That concern can usually be due to various reasons, ranging from thinking about work until the children and household affairs. To fix this, you try to calm yourself down for a few minutes before sex. Inhale and exhale, can help you to relax. Do not think about things that actually make you stress.If that thought is still there, finish it before the issue of new sex with a partner.


2. Foreplay Once you feel relaxed, of course, stages of love must begin with foreplay. Reported askdanandjennifer, foreplay is one powerful way to get an orgasm quickly. If the current partner to penetrate, you are not 100% excited, it will be increasingly difficult to achieve orgasm. In fact that could happen, it never came to orgasm. What kind of foreplay that can trigger an orgasm? According to experts, sex, 95% of women reach climax after receiving clitoral stimulation. So ask your partner to do so.
"This area is the area most sensitive clitoris than the vagina. So when he gets stimulation, could make women more passionate than vaginal penetration," explains psychologist Dr. Sex. Petra Boynton.


3. Sex Toys Do not be afraid to bring sex toys in your intimate life with a partner. Most women who masturbate, can not reach orgasm is less than one minute only to help themselves.But with sex toys, like vibrators, orgasm it can come sooner. Sex toys, like vibrators is actually easy to use. But most women think that the tool can only be used for masturbation, not with a partner. For those of you who have never tried sex toys, such tools can also make sex life during this normal course, becomes again unusual. It could be time to try it, arises a sense of excited and curious. When sex toys will try this, you should involve your partner as well. Invite your partner to find sex toys what you want to try both. By doing this, besides the experience, you and he will be more intimate.


4. Change Schedule Make love after a day of work and taking care of children and husband, chances are if you do that that will happen is difficult to achieve orgasm. Fatigue is one of the factors most known as a passion killer. So rather than make love at night after you are tired day of work, why not try a new schedule. There is no harm in doing a quickie with a couple in the morning. At the wake, the body is usually more relaxed. These activities not only be a new experience, but you can get a bright smile throughout the day because of sex proved to be one way to release the hormone oxytocin (the hormone of happiness). 


How, ready to try one of the four tips above? 


source : smart news
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7 INTERESTING FACTS ABOUT THE ORGASM

Jumat, 08 Juli 2011





Many couples who do everything in order to reach orgasm during lovemaking, and some even faking it. Orgasm is indeed the highest point of sexual pleasure that most desirable of each pair.
But do you know how long the duration of an orgasm, what is felt during orgasm and where the word orgasm? Here are interesting facts about orgasms, as quoted from the Intimate Medicine.


1. Duration of OrgasmOrgasm in men usually lasts for 4 seconds, while in women can be up to 15 seconds.Men reach orgasm faster than women, even the difference can be up to 1-10 minutes.Women are usually only reached orgasm after 20 minutes of sexual penetration.


2. Pain can be caused orgasmOrgasm and pain in the same part of the brain. That's why some people appear not to enjoy and like endure pain during orgasm. Orgasm may indeed cause pain in the vagina, but because the response was so great pleasure, the pain was covered during orgasm.


3. Orgasm Can Happen When SleepingSome people have found to have an orgasm during sleep, or so-called nocturnal orgasm. This could occur, due to an accumulation of sexual stimulation (physical or psychological) that are not channeled in a sexual relationship, resulting in the release in the form of orgasm during sleep.


4. The intensity of Orgasms Different In EveryoneExcerpted from Wikipedia, the sensation of orgasm is different for every individual at different times. Sometimes an orgasm is a wave of sensation that is bubbling, while others are more mild, smooth and not too strong.


5. Orgasm Burn CaloriesWhen experiencing an orgasm, the body is only burns 3 calories. But wasted more calories when the couple tried to reach it; ie during foreplay and sexual penetration.Counted calories lost by 50 on this activity.


6. Orgasms Good for HealthOrgasm has some positive effects on health, one of which strengthen the immune system against disease. Orgasm can also prevent blood vessel disease, even cancer. This is because, after orgasm, the body becomes relaxed and eliminate adverse effects due to stress.


7. Vital Area Healthy OrgasmCouples who reach orgasm regularly each sex, will have many benefits to the health of their genitalia. In men, orgasm can prevent prostate cancer, and impotence. While in women, orgasm can strengthen the pelvic bones and muscles of the vagina.
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method of safe sex to women

Kamis, 07 Juli 2011


Not a few women who become pregnant have concerns during lovemaking. Though sex during pregnancy is safe to do so you know what to watch.
According to experts, sex wolipop, Doctors Vanda Mustika, when a woman is pregnant, the hormonal conditions change dramatically. It was because of the hormones that increase during pregnancy.
The addition of this hormone causes pregnant women to increase libido. Usually libido starts to rise in the second trimester, which is entering the fourth or fifth month.
"Sexual intercourse is safe during pregnancy long as there is no problem in the pregnancy," said dr. Vanda.
Problem pregnancies referred by dr. Vanda for example, pregnancy is accompanied by bleeding, pregnancy is accompanied by the birth canal infections such as vaginal discharge infection, or pregnancy with maternal health conditions that are less well as heart disease or high blood pressure.
Even so, pregnant women who do not have a problem pregnancy, also need to consider several things before having sex with a partner. The first is sexual relations conducted in the first months of pregnancy. In the first months of pregnancy is still very vulnerable, therefore, committed sexual relationships should not be too aggressive.
"The penetration of the penis should not be too deep, especially if the mother ever issued spots of bleeding after sexual intercourse," said dr. Vanda.
After passing the first trimester, pregnant women may feel more comfortable to have sex. Why? Because according to dr. Vanda, sexual relations conducted in the second trimester, between fourth to sixth months are considered safe to do so. In this trimester, pregnancy is also more stable.
How current is the third trimester or after the seventh month? Before you answer, first, you must understand semen contains a substance called prostaglandin, a substance is one of the inflammatory mediators. Prostaglandins can cause a reaction in the form of a uterine contraction.
Therefore, late-late pregnancy, if you want better sex using condoms to prevent direct contact of sperm with cervical fluid. Toward the estimated day of delivery, a new sexual relationship can be done without a safety. Sexual intercourse is also useful to facilitate the birth process in the presence of good uterine contractions.
For sex positions while pregnant, the recommended position is not pressing the womb / mother's abdomen. Pregnant women and their partners have sex with a sideways position, from the back, or woman on top.

Sources: http://www.wolipop.com
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NEW STEP IN GETTING ORGASM

Minggu, 03 Juli 2011



Culmination of sex is when both sides reached an orgasm. But what often happens, get there early men and women left behind. How to overcome this difficulty?
Orgasm in women is difficult to achieve, and true and unselfish man would understand to satisfy their partners in ranjang.Namun also does not mean that as a woman, you shut up and wait 'Big O' just came to me. There are several things you can do to feel and speed up orgasm occurs.

PerfumeTo increase libido during sex, try to suggest your partner use a cologne or a fragrance with a musky scent. The combination of the musky sweat of a man can raise libido in women. Another reason is because of the smell of perfume use, sex and the cramped space shared memory centers in the brain so that the aroma of passion left the impression for you.

Warm FeetA Dutch study showed that women's feet warm enhance orgasm by 30 percent. For that you can do several ways to warm the feet during lovemaking. One way to use socks.


Alternatively you can do is to ask the couples massage. Especially on the soles of the feet. Maybe your partner does not know this, therefore there is no harm in advanced first, anyway for your own enjoyment.


Keep in mind, if you do not have the proper lotion, do not replace it with balsam oil or hot wind. The smell is caused can ruin your sex atmosphere, thus decreasing libido.

Close your eyesClosing his eyes will make you reach orgasm. Feel every inch of penetration of the couple. Let the mind carried to the clouds. That way, you will more quickly get an orgasm.

Rear side of the NeckWhen you are in a position embraced, then navigate your partner's head to the side a bit down in the back of the neck. Let him kiss, lick or do anything fun with his mouth and his tongue in the area. Stronger sensation will be felt more so as to bring you faster to feel the orgasm.

source: SMART NEWZ

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Adolescent Mental Health

Sabtu, 02 Juli 2011





In developmental psychology known for being in a phase of adolescent search for identity that is full of difficulties and problems. Adolescent developmental phase lasts long enough about 11 years, ranging in age from 11-19 years in women and 12-20 years in men. Phase perkebangan phase these teens said the search for identity that is full of difficulties and problems in this phase is because teens are in between two intersections between the world of children and adults.Difficulties and problems that arise in the adolescent phase is not only appear in a teenager itself but also on parents, teachers and communities. Where can we see often there is a contradiction between teens with parents, teenagers with teachers and even among teens themselves.

Why did this happen? Can be briefly explained that the nature of adolescents exist between the two phases perkembanganlah crossing (interim phase), which makes a phase full of hardship and adolescent issues. It is certain that someone who was in a state of transition or a transition from one state to another is often experienced turmoil and turbulence can sometimes be detrimental and even fatal (cause death). (Shah, 2001),,However, essentially all the hardships and problems that arise in this phase of adolescent development can be minimized or even eliminated, if parents, teachers and communities are able to understand the development of the soul, the development of adolescent mental health and able to increase the confidence of the most significant remaja.Persoalan often faced youth day to-day so that made it difficult to adapt to its environment is the relationship of adolescents with older people, especially the father, and her struggle gradually to free themselves from their dominance at the level of adults.

Often parents interfere in personal affairs with a teenage son who is asking these questions as follows: "Where were you last night?", "Who were you going?", "What do you see?" And so forth. These questions basically addressed by parents is due to the presence of parental care and safety of their teenagers. But the ears and the child perceived the questions as a police interrogation of a criminal who was captured.

In the view of psychologists family or a good parent is a parent who is able to introduce teenagers need the following challenges to be free and then help and support it optimally and provide the opportunity and the means which lead to freedom.Additionally teens also are encouraged to take responsibility, make decisions, and plan its future. However, understanding this process does not happen quickly, it needs patience and sincerity of parents in guiding and directing their teenagers.

Furthermore, psychologists suggest that the best strategy and fit with the youth strategy is its tendency to respect the independence freely without neglecting attention to their parents. This strategy is in addition to creating a climate of trust between parents and children, can also teach the adaptation or adjustment to a healthy teenager. This is very helpful development, maturity, and adolescent mental balance. (Mahfuz, 2001),,Growth and development that occur during adolescence are not always handled well.In this phase, on the one side of the adolescents still showed childishness, but on the other hand are required to be mature by the environment. In line with social development, they are more conformity to the group and began to break away from attachment and dependence on his parents, and often show an attitude challenge the authority of parents.

Adolescent coping wrong sometimes perform actions that are not realistic, and even tends to escape from its responsibilities. Transfer behavior problems faced by consuming alcoholic beverages is mostly done by groups of teenagers, even to reach the level of drug abuse and dependence on addictive substances.

In connection with the release of the responsibility, among adolescents also frequently encountered many attempts to commit suicide. in developed countries, like America, Japan, New Zealand, the problem of suicide among teenagers is at an alarming rate.While developing countries such as Indonesia, unhealthy behaviors that adolescents are at risk of accidents as well as many teenagers do, such as reckless driving. Other things become important issues among teenagers in all countries is the increasing number delinkuensi. Such behavior such as involvement in a fight between fellow teenager, ran away from home, commit acts of violence, and violations of law, is commonly done by teenagers.

Mental health community is basically reflected aspects of adolescent mental health.The higher delinquency rates, teen suicide, drug use and dependence on addictive substances, mental health community means more rendah.Usaha guidance is very important mental health among adolescents, in the form of special programs, such as increased awareness of mental health, counseling on family life, living healthy and preventing the use of addictive substances, as well as counseling on prevention against HIV / AIDS, and the like.Adolescent mental health programs can be done through formal institutions teenagers, such as schools, and also through other interventions such as community programs, or programs made specifically for youth groups.


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